Looking back so far. 2013 has been good and I hope to keep it going that way. But I realized I never took the time to look back at last year. 2012 you were great and horrible all at the same time.
I left people who needed to be left behind in the dark where they belong and by leaving them there I opened new space for the new people I have met. For the first time in a few years I have a solid group of people who accept me for the geek and crazy ass person I am. I have co-workers that are amazing and a joy to work with. I love the job I have but sadly it just doesn't pay the bills. I am actively looking for what people refer to a "big girl job" IE pays the bills and will get me an apartment. So add those to both lists of why 2012 ans '13 are going well. I am employed and seeking betterment for my self. 2012 also gave me a lot of artistic love, though most of it didn't end up here and a better part of it was all food I am okay with that. The movies that came out were inspiring and just wonderful to watch over and over. My sister got engaged and I will be her maid of honor. I am very excited and happy for her. On the notion of love when it comes to me, it still eludes me and perhaps will for some time to come. I am finally okay with this. After this last fall I don't think I can imagine my self with any one. Not after the heartbreak that I had, and I shouldn't even had let it happen in the first place. I let my feelings grow to strongly too fast and it was a mistake on my part and I know it now. But from this I have learned that I need to be more cautious and not fall in freaking love. It happened to my mom and dad and now my sister it looks like it doesn't work with me though. Oh well. Onward and up ward to the things to look forward to this year.
A new job is possible, which is always good. For the first time I am going to be part of a very well planned out costuming group for CONvergence. I can't say much about it but it is going to be amazing. I have all ready been cooking and baking more new things that I was not confidant in. I have a steady flow of new supplies come in so as I grow as a baker/chef I can do so seamlessly. My knowledge in wines, ciders, and beers is also growing which is good for my current job and if I proceed in to the restaurant world it will give me a leg up. My sister is getting married and that will be so much fun to help her with. And in 2014 I will be a brides maid in a friends wedding so that shall be a lot of fun as well.
Really looking back at things I have been so fortunate in my life. I have not lost and of those who are closest to me. I have gained new friends and I have only had one unfortunate run in with love and that is okay. 2012 was a good year and 2013 is shaping up to be a good one as well.
Thank you to every one who has been there for me and will continue to be there for me. I will do every thing in my power to be there for you even if it is only with words over the phone or internet.
Stay well stay safe and love every one around you no matter who they are or what they've done.